Here it is:
When you're in college and stressing out about an exam, there are people who will inevitably tell you to "wait until you get out into the real world." These people insist that it's much more difficult to hold down a job and pay bills than to live in a dorm and go to school.
Screw these people. As a recent college graduate who struggled with everything from weight issues to anxiety attacks in college, I can tell you that it definitely gets easier in the dreaded "real world." In the real world, you don't have to come home from work and study so that you can be prepared for work the next day. In the real world, you don't have to take on student loans just to live comfortably. The real world is a haven, and I am quite upset with everyone who told me anything to the contrary.
Last year at this time, I was balancing an internship in Lyon's marketing and communications office, a job in the writing lab, an editing position on the school paper and 15 credit hours. It was absolute hell. I remember finally getting home after a long day at work and thinking to myself, "If this is the best time in my life, I should probably start slowly poisoning myself with arsenic." Fortunately, I was too poor to afford arsenic (my jobs earned me enough revenue to pay Lyon tuition at the end of the semester and really nothing else) and eventually graduated into the real world I had heard so much about.
You know what's great about the real world? I can eat pizza for dinner every night. I can comfortably pay bills with the help of my boyfriend. Most importantly, my salary allows me to put back $500 a month, which will help me pay back all those student loans I took on during the alleged "best time of my life."
I guess what I'm trying to say is that you don't have to take something to heart just because it comes from someone supposedly older and wiser. Obviously I am not including myself in this category, as I am only 22 and know little more about life than any of you do. (That said, if you need advice on setting up Source Gas billing, I can totally hook you up. That is my one true life skill right now.)
College is tough. Don't let anyone tell you it isn't. Don't let anyone devalue the struggles you might be facing right now. Just know that it will get better. Someday, you'll be able to come home and hold your adorable yellow tabby cat and not have to worry so much about what the next day holds.
Until then, try to live for today. It's not easy; I know that well. Still, I think it's important to take life one step at a time. While college is a difficult step, it is minor in comparison to the rest of your life. I know this because the day after I graduated from Lyon, I no longer cared about three quarters of the stress I had carried with me for four years. .
It gets better when you get a job and graduate from college life, I promise. And if it doesn't, I can at least promise that you'll get paid to be miserable, which is a hell of a lot better than the alternative.
This is actually kind of timely for me, because today I went to a work event and interviewed some people from Pulaski Tech College. They asked me how I enjoyed college and I laughed and said, "I enjoy it now that it's over."
Seriously, college is the worst.